28 Steps to Fearless Speaking
Overcome your fear and become a high-impact speaker
by Quentin Steele
Content Preparation
- Become an expert on your material
- Prepare your content thoroughly
- Organize your content into a logical
outline
- Prepare a solid introduction: You are most
vulnerable to nervousness during the first minute of your speech
- Prepare a solid conclusion: An otherwise
well-prepared speech can die in an ad-libbed conclusion
- Establish your credentials early in the
speech to build your credibility
- Rehearse your answers to potential
audience questions
Mental Preparation
- Channel the adrenaline from your nervous
energy into positive energy for your speech
- Instead of focusing on your nervousness,
concentrate on benefiting the audience
- Visualize yourself giving a great speech
and the audience loving it
- Act confident: If you first convince
yourself that youre confident, your audience will believe you
- When you make a mistake, deal with it, let
go of it, and move on
Relaxation
- Get plenty of rest the night before you
speak
- Relax before your presentation by
stretching or taking a short walk
- Relax during your presentation by
stretching your spine and breathing deeply
- Relax your hands: Avoid gripping them
together or clenching your fists
- Relax your mind: Think of a calm and
peaceful setting and imagine being there
Delivery
- Stand comfortably with good posture, and
without nervous pacing
- Breathe and pause at the beginning and end
of your speech. You will feel more composed.
- Breathe and pause whenever you are tempted
to say an "uh-word"
- Instead of memorizing sentences, memorize
ideas from which you speak from the heart
- Practice your delivery, first to a mirror,
then to a friend or family member
- Join Toastmasters or take a speaking
course to get lots of practice in front of a supportive audience
Audience
- Talk to audience members before your
presentation to establish a relationship and to better understand their attitudes and
needs
- Empathize with your audience: What do they
need from you?
- Learn your audiences names, and call
them by name
- Use sustained eye contact to build
audience rapport
- Involve your audience, which will offload
some of the pressure you might feel
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